Rethinking Healing: Letting Go of 'More is Better'

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What if, in our push for better health, we are missing something fundamental? Consider the idea that healing doesn't always require new information or aggressive treatment, but instead depends on tending to the resources we already have. This vision of healing isn't about constantly chasing the next thing; it grows from empathy, personal history, and a willingness to listen to our bodies and minds.

When you truly understand your inner world, your body, your mind, your patterns, your truth, everything in your outer world shifts.

The fallacy of 'more is better' in healing

The belief that more action brings better results is deeply rooted in medicine. But Dr. Marnie Laplante, ND asks us to slow down and reevaluate. She argues that real healing often begins when we acknowledge what each person can truly manage right now, rather than piling on new treatments. When we overwhelm ourselves with interventions, we risk drowning out the body's own signals. For Dr. LaPlante, practicing medicine became less about collecting credentials and more about deepening her capacity for empathy and sensitivity.

This memory highlights a larger truth: our early stories shape what we believe about ourselves and what kinds of healing feel accessible to us.

An early experience with a high school math teacher shaped her sense of possibility. After being told she couldn't be creative with math, Dr. Laplante, ND began to question whether she was cut out to become a doctor at all. This memory highlights a larger truth: our early stories shape what we believe about ourselves and what kinds of healing feel accessible to us. It challenges the idea that more is always better, instead suggesting that real progress can come from examining and understanding these formative narratives.

Understanding capacity: less control, more connection

Capacity Medicine treats healing as a deeply individual process shaped by each person's limits and experiences. Instead of following a fixed blueprint for health, Dr. Laplante, ND encourages her patients to pay attention to their unique needs and intuition. Her career shifts, from international development to naturopathy, reflect a commitment to working in alignment with her own values rather than external expectations.

Healing comes not through force or rigid control but through connection and care.

This method blends somatic practices with emotional awareness. Physical and emotional scars each hold their own stories and need time and space for attention, healing comes not through force or rigid control but through connection and care. By taking each patient's history seriously, Dr. LaPlante builds a partnership where doctor and patient can redefine what health means for them together.

Embracing 'neuro-spiciness' as a healing asset

Dr. Laplante, ND uses the term 'neuro-spiciness' to describe the advantages of neurodivergent thinking in her practice. Instead of seeing differences in cognitive processing as barriers, she views them as strengths that help her find solutions others might overlook. Her approach relies on empathy and self-awareness, which benefits both her patients and herself by maintaining clear boundaries and self-care.

This perspective invites a shift: differences like neurodiversity aren't deficits but potential sources of insight and innovation. Dr. Laplante, ND's way of working encourages compassion toward ourselves and respect for our unique paths through healing, reminding us that these differences can shape stronger, more creative ways forward than traditional approaches sometimes allow.

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